Life Lesson #5: What I resist can never heal.

No one likes change, we resist it if only on the basis of being comfortable with how things are, we become accustomed to things being in particular ways. We know the rules, we know how to work with them. Even if things are not in the best way, there is a certain amount of comfort…Read more Life Lesson #5: What I resist can never heal.


To my followers, readers, occasional visitors:

In the course of writing this blog to share experiences with you, I have been learning what is possible for me to sustain and what is not. I have posted once a week, every week for over six months now, and my life has both been enriched by the exercise and thrown dangerously off balance…Read more To my followers, readers, occasional visitors:

Life Lesson #1: Desperation is ugly.

I am an empath, born to a narcissist (a rock) and an enabler (a hard place) a situation I’ve been desperate to escape for a long time. I grew up, eating, sleeping and breathing desperation. This desperation grew a hunger in my soul. I never counted, never mattered, had no inherent importance or worth. I…Read more Life Lesson #1: Desperation is ugly.

Heart Bloom

There is an exquisite vulnerability shared between two souls together in Love, it persists beyond all logic, linking both together from one lifetime to another. It can be forgotten and also recovered, not just to it’s former strength, but made greater. This shared vulnerability makes the bonds stronger, gives a fieriness. I was reminded of…Read more Heart Bloom