No one likes change, we resist it if only on the basis of being comfortable with how things are, we become accustomed to things being in particular ways. We know the rules, we know how to work with them. Even if things are not in the best way, there is a certain amount of comfort…Read more Life Lesson #5: What I resist can never heal.
Each of us comes into physicality to learn some very specific things, as individuals with set parameters. Much is set in place before we incarnate, excepting our reactions, and the choices we make. We can choose fear, live a life of smoke and mirrors, poisoning ourselves and those around us. We can choose love, become…Read more Life Lesson #4: Do not interfere with others life lessons.
...those who are controlled by ego, but do not be dragged down by it. Ego Ego allows us to survive, existing because it serves the purpose of delineating who I am from who you are. Problems with it arise when it moves beyond the stated purpose and extends, overshadowing everything. Getting it back to it’s…Read more Life Lesson #3: Treat with compassion…
When ego is in charge of our lives, fear takes centre stage, dragging us through as much muck as possible, encrusting us in crap. We end up looking like orcs being born from the earth as Saruman looked on. Ewww… We have only to watch Return of the King to know how “well” that turned…Read more Life Lesson #2: Anything ego based will not last
In the course of writing this blog to share experiences with you, I have been learning what is possible for me to sustain and what is not. I have posted once a week, every week for over six months now, and my life has both been enriched by the exercise and thrown dangerously off balance…Read more To my followers, readers, occasional visitors:
I am an empath, born to a narcissist (a rock) and an enabler (a hard place) a situation I’ve been desperate to escape for a long time. I grew up, eating, sleeping and breathing desperation. This desperation grew a hunger in my soul. I never counted, never mattered, had no inherent importance or worth. I…Read more Life Lesson #1: Desperation is ugly.
Several months ago, Daddy spelled out some lessons He intended for me to use as guidelines for our life together. I have found them invaluable, not simply in my interactions with Him, but for life in general. They are as follows: 1. Desperation is ugly. 2. Anything ego based will not last. 3. Treat with…Read more Life Lessons Introduction